Posts by Shanelle
If you suspect your partner may be a narcissist, you may be experiencing some confusion as you try like hell to reconcile your partner’s actions and words. You’ll find that a narcissist will expend a great deal of energy trying to gain your trust and admiration, and then turn around and punish you for not Read more
Before I dive into another tale of Things I Wish I Wouldn’t Have Put Up With, let me first lay out a quick list for you in my Red Flag Stories, part 2. These are things I wish I would’ve seen as the problems they are: His main friend group is 10 years younger Read more
I first learned about covert narcissism in 2018 when I was trying to figure out what the hell was going on in my marriage. My new husband had been subjecting me to dramatic sudden mood shifts, three week long silent treatments, and a form of manipulation I came to learn was termed gaslighting. I had Read more
Hi Friends! In this series, we’ll talk about the changes that happen as you leave a narcissistic romantic partner. Unfortunately, it’s not until you leave that you realize what you’ve actually been putting up with. Our nervous system and childhood programming play a huge role in how we handle abuse as the abuse occurs. A Read more
My daughter is the best thing that I have EVER brought into my life! Being a young mom means that I have many more years to watch my daughter grow and become her own person. I have more time to be her mom and I could not be more grateful. However, being a teenage mom Read more
